Sunday, 26 January 2014

SHALWATI IS MY AUNT AND PROUD OF IT...


Waking up in the middle of the night due to having a confusing dream in the form of a slide show regarding news articles of Miss Shal's case  gave me a pang of insomniac moment. 

I saw flashes of memory clips in my dream of growing up with her that made me realise how much I miss her. Seeing what people have been saying and writing about Miss Shal and her family gave birth to this mixed feeling of sadness and longing.

Before this, the distance had never taken a toll on our relationship for the family and her we can always communicate using multiple mediums. But now, it had left an empty space in our hearts that only can be filled after all this mayhem is settled. And we wished and pray hard for the day to come soonest. 

Tonight, in my dream I’ve seen a few flashbacks of Miss Shal. How she was always so independent with her little red car that she had used for so many years. That is Miss Shal, with her tagline of “ tok soh nyusoh...(no need to trouble anyone)” doing mostly everything on her own and excellent with it had always been so inspiring.   

 How I remember when I was young, waiting at my grandma’s door for the little red car to reach our kampung for Eidul Fitri had always been exciting. Reminiscing as a little kid, she combed my hair into a perfect ponytail and cute buns while giving me tips how to take good photos, saying that we the family have photogenic genes. That is Miss Shal, always known for her wits, filling the family’s kitchen with her cheeky smile and laughter while always being the wise head among other siblings in a family quarrel. 

Miss Shal might be portrait as a strict person on some cases but you can always expect her to see things from a different angle during  discussions and always so understanding and very comforting to be around with. Those traits of her make her an excellent school teacher. I can bet that there have been so many girls came and sought her advise and guidance in life abd I am one of them.

I remember my childhood days where I spent my holidays staying at her place even before she had her own family, where we talked about mostly everything, how she perfected my tajwid for my daily prayers, reading the Quran after prayers and free English lessons at night before we settle for our sleep. That had been the ritual slumber party for the nieces. Yes, she is my aunt and I am proud of her. 

She is a great mom and raised her kids well. How do I know this? Her kids are the most pleasant bunch of kids you have ever met. They conversed well, polite and ever so humble. Her 1st born, Aisyah, inherit her mom’s wits and matured way beyond her age. The other 3 boys were a normal bunch of generation Y kids where they loved their gadgets and video games and yet still squeak and gush over babies and baby animals.

 They were always so helpful and fun to be with and if you were driving them around, their mom will ask them to recite the  Ayatul Qursi and few more Quranic verses to ease the journey. These kids were fun, loving and passionate kids as they were raised well by their parents.

Now, the situation had taken away their smile and put them in a very dark moment in their life and I am sure that they had been traumatised by what is happening and I wonder if it will leave an ugly scar and will it ever heal. Praying for the best and praying hard for it. I am sure that Miss Shal and her family would do the same if we were in their shoes.

--AKQMIE







19 comments:

  1. Well said!
    Sweden pls let them go

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  2. http://satuhala.blogspot.com/2014/01/antara-pilaneserg-sweden.html

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  3. May Allah swt protects their family and let them be together till jannah... May Allah keep their faith stronger than ever to Allah swt...

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  4. Good moms do not hit their children. Nor do they let their partner hit their children. Child abuse is not love.

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    1. Totally agree with you my friend. This nice couple is not one of them.

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  5. In Islam, you'll get more than a beating for not performing the cumpolsury prayers in the afterlife. Religiously, what the mother did was not wrong and is a show of love for her children. Don't just simply use the "hit the children" to generalize child abuse. Separating the children from their parents is abuse too.

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    1. Separating a child from people which are beating it on regular basis is a necessary measure to protect the child. It is not done out of malice.

      A God who demands parents to hit their children must surely be an evil God, a devil. I did not think that about Islam until now.

      The kids are back in Malaysia now, with relatives. Lets just hope that this will not imply that the physical abuse will start again. The parents are awataing trial in Sweden, based on 20 hours of video material where the kids are describing the assaults they been put through the last 2,5 years.

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    2. What if your religion said that you had to rape a child, or murder it, or else both you and the child would be punished in the afterlife. Would that make rape and murder right, and a show of love for the child?

      In my eyes all it makes is an evil religion.

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  8. What total EVIL HYPOCRISY! Western-Zionist REGIME threatens to deport/punish/jail foreigners over `uncivilized´ behaviour – but hey, it’s supposedly `civilized’ for BARBARIAN & FASCIST Western-Zionist REGIMES to endlessly BOMB, TORTURE, RAPE and MURDER, in endless GENOCIDE, of Muslim/`Third` World's poor INDIGENOUS children and peoples (in order to ROB their sovereign nations’ massive oil-gas-minerals-land)! And so koltrasten, what do you think of this Western-Zionist REGIMES' national religious or non-religious values and laws (i.e. so-called 'progressive' humanist secularism/atheism/liberalis/modernism) that seem to LEGITIMIZE such BARBARISM?! What a joke you are, and so is the EVIL HYPOCRISY of the Western-Zionist world!

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  9. By the way, all my DELETED comments were deleted by MYSELF. in order to publish the most correct version!

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  10. Oh yes, I forgot, didn't the so-called 'civilized' Sweden just freed someone who MASTURBATED in the public at http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/18/public-masturbation-legal-sweden_n_3949742.html? Now, koltrasten, I wonder what would happen if a child or a foreigner is exposed to such IMMORAL sexual act in the PUBLIC (as opposed to a private act)! It looks like pathetically 'civilized' Sweden considers such sexually beastly act in the PUBLIC, as not an ABUSE of someone else human rights!

    Or let's look at so-called 'civilized' Germany, where RAPING ANIMALS, including forming BESTIALITY Zoos, is legal! It looks like animals don't have any rights in this "so-civilized" Western culture; and yet many EVIL Western hypocrites keep on attacking Islamic culture of not allowing dogs as pets and so on! See - http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2352779/Bestiality-brothels-spreading-Germany-campaigner-claims-abusers-sex-animals-lifestyle-choice.html):

    Bestiality brothels are spreading through Germany faster than ever thanks to a law that makes animal porn illegal but sex with animals legal, a livestock protection officer has warned.

    Madeleine Martin told the Frankfurter Rundschau that current laws were not protecting animals from predatory zoophiles who are increasingly able to turn to bestiality as a 'lifestyle choice'.....

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    1. Since you post all of your comments in 3 copies on different blog posts, I answered all of them on the blogpost dating jan 29.

      There I point out that your hateful accusations are ridiculous, since Sweden have not been to war for 200 years, full of misconceptions and lies, and extremely racist.

      It is ironic that you accuse "western regimes" for racism, while you yourself is obviously racist, accusing Sweden for things happening in Germany and Brittain based on... What? Color of skin?

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  11. So koltrasten, your pathetic RACIST and SILLY reply is one big joke! When Muslims commits a 'crime', the Western-Zionist world usually label them generally, such as under "MUSLIM terrorists" - we don't really see Christian or Jews being labelled in such a way, in the West, do we?! And to educate you intelligently, race/ethnicity, for example, a “Westerner” is actually, based NOT, from their skin colour (and that skin colour thing is part of RACISM) but from their socio-cultural HERITAGE, which then encompass their whole identity – thus is why Obama, for example, is labelled both as an African-American man and a Westerner (and why many African-Americans detest the label ‘Black’)!

    And you have gone on and on with your anti-Islam RANTINGS, and now, you're claiming you're so 'tolerant' (by having a Muslim friend), and yet you dare to defend such a beastly masturbating PERVERT in Sweden! Just because no one was on the beach when the PERVERT decided to start masturbating in the public, makes it legal? Man, that is so SICK! Now, I wonder if that PERVERT is a non-Muslim, would his religion or non-religious values be ‘evil’, to you?

    And, I wonder if you dare to call Christianity and Judaism, as "evil religion" (that’s how you condemn Islam), despite that all the GENOCIDAL war-mongering rampage that the Christian-Jewish or humanist secularism-ruled countries from the West, have been committing towards Indigenous CHILDREN and peoples including in Muslim countries, over centuries? Here, educate yourself of what GENOCIDE means and don’t ORDER me, like a Western MASTER, which news to read, you joker – see http://www.hrweb.org/legal/genocide.html

    Convention on the Prevention and Punishment of the Crime of Genocide

    Adopted by Resolution 260 (III) A of the United Nations General Assembly on 9 December 1948.

    Article 1

    The Contracting Parties confirm that genocide, whether committed in time of peace or in time of war, is a crime under international law which they undertake to prevent and to punish.

    Article 2

    In the present Convention, genocide means any of the following acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnical, racial or religious group, as such:

    • (a) Killing members of the group;
    • (b) Causing serious bodily or mental harm to members of the group;
    • (c) Deliberately inflicting on the group conditions of life calculated to bring about its physical destruction in whole or in part;
    • (d) Imposing measures intended to prevent births within the group;
    • (e) Forcibly transferring children of the group to another group.

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    1. I find it hilarious that you posted this comment, an exact copy of a comment you already posted on the blogpost from jan 29, not only after it was already answered at the blogpost from jan 29, but also after you yourself have already posted an answer to my answer to this exact comment.

      Are you retarded?

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  12. Central African Republic : French soldiers suspectedly let Ethnic Cleansing (GENOCIDE) of Muslims by Christians to go on – suspectedly in order for French/Western-Zionist warmongering PARASITE DESPOTS and REGIMES to go on living-off (ROBBING) Africa/’Third’/Muslim World’s oil/gas/minerals/land whilst flaming Muslim-Christian hatred – see both articles below (where is the AFRICAN UNION Peacekeeping force instead of RACIST-IMPERIALIST French soldiers?)!

    And yet, Malaysia/Muslim-`Third`World kept being preached by Western Ziionist NGOs/DESPOTS/REGIMES as if we are still their SLAVES, on how to practise such FAKE Western-Zionist `human rights-democracy`!
    See : 1. At - https://www.aa.com.tr/en/world/264473--cars-muslim-minority-decries-anti-balaka-atrocities
    CAR's Muslim minority decries anti-balaka 'atrocities:

    Turkey Anadolu Agency News

    18 December 2013 (Last updated 18 December 2013 )

    (see also most recent news at http://www.washingtonpost.com/world/troops-brutal-lynching-shows-instability-in-central-african-republic/2014/02/05/51461896-8ebe-11e3-878e-d76656564a01_story.html, Troops’ brutal lynching casts hope aside for Central African Republic, By Sudarsan Raghavan, Thursday, February 6)

    AA investigates attacks against Muslims carried out by the Christian militia known as the "anti-
    balaka," meaning "anti-machete."

    By Assed Baig

    BANGUI

    2. At - http://www.herald.co.zw/how-the-french-continue-to-ive-off-africa/

    How the French continue to live off Africa

    Zimbabwe Herald News

    February 3, 2014

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  13. 'Civilized' Germany, where RAPING ANIMALS, including forming BESTIALITY Zoos, is legal! It looks like animals don't have any rights in this "so-civilized" Western culture; and yet many EVIL Western hypocrites keep on attacking Islamic culture of not allowing dogs as pets and so on! See - http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2352779/Bestiality-brothels-spreading-Germany-campaigner-claims-abusers-sex-animals-lifestyle-choice.html):

    Bestiality brothels are spreading through Germany faster than ever thanks to a law that makes animal porn illegal but sex with animals legal, a livestock protection officer has warned.

    Madeleine Martin told the Frankfurter Rundschau that current laws were not protecting animals from predatory zoophiles who are increasingly able to turn to bestiality as a 'lifestyle choice'.....

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  14. PSYCHO-SATANIC Western-Zionist ‘FREEDOM’ through normalizing PORNOGRAPHY/FREE SEX, DRUGS, PEDOPHILIA, ALCOHOL, BESTIALITY, ABORTION etc - to CORRUPT the young minds, and then these HYPOCRITES claimed that they 'love...' their children. But truly-LOVING MUSLIM parents must NOT tolerate such BEASTLY Satanic behaviour from the diseased, decaying and immoral Western-Zionist civilization!

    See- http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2561478/Miley-Cyrus-gives-away-gold-leaf-rolling-papers-wearing-marijuana-leaf-leotard-Bangerz-tour-Canada.html:

    Miley Cyrus gives away rolling papers made of GOLD before wearing marijuana leaf leotard on Bangerz tour in Canada

    By Daily Mail Reporter

    PUBLISHED: 17 February 2014

    She freely admits to regularly smoking marijuana.

    And now Miley Cyrus appears to be encouraging her fans to do the same.

    The 21-year-old was giving away gold-leaf rolling papers with the purchase of her Bangerz tour book at her concert venue in Vancouver, Canada on Friday.

    The product is manufactured by Shine Papers, and is made from edible 24Karat gold leaf.
    Launched in September, a 12-pack retails for $65, and has become somewhat of a status symbol in hip hop circles.

    ……..Coveted: The papers, which retail at $65 for a 12-pack, have become a status symbol in the hip hop world
    The pop star has spoken about her marijuana habit numerous times in the past.

    Most recently, she told W Magazine, 'I love weed. I just love getting stoned.'

    She also caused controversy when she appeared to smoke a joint onstage at the Europe Music Awards in November.

    Controversial: Miley appeared to smoke a joint during her performance at the MTV Europe Music Awards in Amsterdam in November

    Meanwhile, Miley kicked off her tour in the Canadian city wearing a marijuana leaf leotard whilst performing her now predictable raunchy antics such as crotch grabbing and derrière waggling.

    Riding the hood of a car, the Wrecking Ball singer spread eagled her legs as she dropped her microphone over her crotch in a racy dance portion of the show.

    She then strutted atop the roof of the vehicle sticking out her rear, even bouncing a massive balloon off of her backside.

    Wearing a leotard printed with marijuana leaves she strutted onstage in a pair of white cowboy boots before changing into a red mid-riff baring two-piece with fluffy feathered shoulders……

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